Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Leslie Kenton: “I Was Raped by My Dad”

Leslie KentonFamous beauty expert Leslie Kenton has revealed in her new memoir "Love Affair" that she was raped by her own father when she was 11 and that the secret incest lasted until she was 13.

According to website reports, four years ago, Kenton first contemplated writing about her childhood and "Love Affair" in which she gave full account of the horrors and the secret incest relation.

Leslie told reporters, "My friend Gail Rebuck, who was my first editor and is now the chairman of Random House, told me, ‘You need to write a memoir.’ I said, ‘Gail, I can’t. No one would believe it, and the tabloids would go wild.’ And Gail said, ‘Who cares? This book will be the bridge between what you have done before and the work you will do afterwards.’”

The beauty guru is considered as the priestess of the real beauty movement for decades. She advocated high-raw, high-vegetable diets and detoxifying, way back in the 70's. She had created the Origins range and imported the skincare tablet Imedeen to Britain. Leslie has made her brilliant present from a murkier past.

Talking about the book, Kenton said: “It ripped me to shreds”.

In the book she has wrote about the summer of 1952, when she met her father Stanley on his dance tour, sharing his hotel room, sleeping back to back. He was heavy drinker and Kenton who was just 10 was trying to control her dad. He was, in many ways, treating her as a substitute for his wife Violet. One night the final boundary was crossed and he raped his daughter. It was the beginning of an incestuous relationship that lasted until she was 13.Throwing light on their relation Kenton said, "I believe he tried his best to resist touching me. Then, drowning in a sea of alcohol, he would come to my bed, only to deny the next morning that he’d been there. This was not cynical. Stanley had become so skilled in keeping secrets he could hide his guiltiest one even from himself."

Kenton who did not blame her father for incestuous relationship said, "He was born into guilt. As a child, he was taught by his mother, ‘There’s something wrong with you, Stanley.’ From talking to relatives, Leslie has learnt of a highly dysfunctional family with a history of manipulation, neglect and bizarre cult-like rituals."

“I do not know how to express the damage that a family like this does. This is a disease that’s passed on. Some people survive it and others are deeply damaged.”

According to Kenton she thinks that her father experienced a condition known as dissociative identity disorder, involving selective amnesia, which she also developed as she blocked out the incest.

While working on the book, Kenton retreated to her rambling house perched atop an extinct volcano on New Zealand’s South Island.

Kenton dedicated her book "Love Affair" to her father. In the tribute she has written, "For Stanley, with all my love".




Preity Zinta ‘I Can’t Go Out with Any Guy’

Preity ZintaActress turned businesswoman Preity Zinta has moved ahead in her life after breakup with her boyfriend Ness Wadia. But now the only thing that bothers her, are the link-ups with co-stars and friends. Due to which none of her male friends wants to go out with her, she says.

Talking to the reporters Preity said, "I'm surrounded by celebrities who are constantly discussing their personal lives. I'm the same Preity Zinta I used to be. You won't find me discussing my private life in detail. I'm in a very good space right now."

Showing her dimples the actress added, "The only problem is any man whom I’m seen with in public is automatically linked with me. I've come to a place where none of my male friends wants to go out with me any more! I think I'll just have to pick my date for the next public event through a contest!"

The co-owner of Indian Premier League (IPL) team Kings XI Punjab, Preity is now linked up with her own team cricketers.

Expressing her feeling on the linkups with own Cricket team's members, she said, "Can you imagine, members of my own team! I've always maintained I'd never mix business and pleasure. Now that I'm getting fully into business, I'm narrowing my chances of finding a man. I know I’d never get into criminal activities, so maybe…”

Talking about her relation with ex-boyfriend Ness Wadia, Preity said, "The media has been trying to find awkwardness in our equation. Why should that be? We’re still good friends. We’re no longer seeing each other. We’re colleagues now.“If ever I’m in a situation, I’m sure he’d watch my back, as I’d watch his. But would people let go of this fascination with the equation between me and Ness? It’s been one year since we broke up.”

Preity, who is spending most of her time outside Mumbai, said, "Whenever I'm not shooting I'm out of the country. Don't get me wrong. I love Mumbai to death. But tell me what can an actor do in the city if she isn't working? I can't go out partying. I can't even take a jog. What do I do on a Sunday? I can't even go out.

She also said, "Now (after the Ness episode) it’s become worse. I can’t go out with any guy. If I do I’ve to beg some women to come along, otherwise the guy and I get linked up. I can’t handle it any more."

Well last year was not good for Preity from personal and professional front as she broke up with long time boyfriend and her IPL team Kings XI Punjab did nothing good. So, we can just pray that 2010 will bring happiness in her life.


Review of ‘Ishqiya’


Ishqiya Film ReviewCast: Naseruddin Shah, Arshad Warsi, Vidya Balan

Director: Abhishek Chaubey

Producer: Vishal Bhardwaj

Rating: 4/5

Film Review:Produced by Vishal Bhardwaj "Ishqiya" is another out standing movie set on the backdrop of Western Uttar Pradesh, Gorakhpur. The movie which was released on this Friday is directed by debutant director Abhishek Chaubey.

Written by Vishal Bhardwaj, Abhishek Chaubey and Sabrina Dhawan, Ishqiya is a story of love triangle between two thieves (Naseeruddin Shah and Arshad Warsi) and a widow (Vidya Balan).

Film starts with Naseeruddin Shah (Khalujaan) and Arshad Warsi (Babban), two thieves of Uttar Pradesh, running from their boss after taking off all his money. They both reach Gorakhpur, to meet an old friend but discover that he is dead. His widow, Krishna (Vidya Balan) gives them shelter. After which the story of complicated love triangle with the series of kidnappings, deaths and blow-ups starts. The climax of the film is unconventional and surprising.

On the acting front, all the three actors have given good performances. Talented actor Naseeruddin Shah as Khalujaan, 51 year old thief in the film has done full justice with his character as was expected. He has wonderfully depicted the emotion of aging lover who wants to live a peaceful life after spending many years in the world of guns and gangsters.Arshad Warsi who is considered as the average actor, surprised everyone, he looked very convincing as young thief from Uttar Pradesh. Last but not least Vidya as Krishna has given tremendous performance. She played the role of sexy, deceptive women who seduces both men cunningly and uses them to fulfill her intentions.

Director Abhishek Chaubey made the film with full conviction and created an interesting drama with new twists. He has very tactfully served a spicy treat of comedy and suspense before audience.

Cinematographer Mohana Krishna Agapu has done marvelous job. The background score and music of film is quite nice and Vishal Bhardwaj has composed nice songs with catchy folk music touch.

The movie is sure to attract a lot of audiences specially the young college going students but some parts of the movie in which some abusive words have been used might seem offensive to family audience.




Review of ‘Rann’

Rann Film ReviewCast: Amitabh Bachchan, Ritesh Deshmukh, Paresh Rawal, Mohnish Behl, Manisha Koirala, Rajat Kapoor, Gul Panag, Raima Sen

Director: Ram Gopal Varma

Producer: Madhu Mantena, Sheetal Vinod Talwar

Rating: 3.5/5

Film Review:
After giving many flop films, Ramgopal Varma seems to be bouncing back with his new release Rann'. Rann is a serious movie which exposes media, industrialists and politician's connections. It also discloses media giants' game that how they sensationalize simple news for popularity and ratings.

Written by Rohit Banawlikar 'Rann' is a social drama which is woven around the founder of a private news channel 24/7, Vijay Harshvardhan Malik (Amitabh Bachchan) who is a hardcore upholder of journalistic ethics. Vijay's struggling channel is looked after by his son Jay Malik (Sudeep). Jay considers her father's news channel purely as a business enterprise that must make profits to survive.

Vijay's rival Amrish Kakkar (Mohnish Bahl) who was once his employee is gaining profits by making the news sensational.

The twist in the story comes when corrupt politician, Mohan Pandey (Paresh Rawal), a Prime Minister position aspirant, decides to use the channel 24/7 for his own advantage by using Vijay’s son-in-law Navin (Rajat Kapoor).

Navin who wants to be No 1 industrialist persuades Jay to make a deal with Pandey. The climax of the film is filled with great dialogues and powerful performance from Big B.

Performances of all the actors are good. Amitabh Bachchan has done full justice with his character and his dialogue delivery is quite impressive. Another actor who made his mark is Sudeep. Ritesh Deshmukh is nice in his role. But his part as investigator looks a bit confusing in the film.

Paresh Rawal, who enters in Ramu's camp after a long gap, has delivered tremendous performance in a negative role. Rajat Kapoor is flawless. Mohnish Bahl too has given a wonderful performance.

Other actors like Neetu Chandra, Gul Panag, Nina Kulkarni, Simone Singh and Suchitra Krishnamoorthy are average. Rajpal Yadav has done a good job of adding some funny touch to a serious movie.

The strength of the film is its strong story and powerful performance. Solid dialogues are one more plus point of the film. The cinematography of Amit Roy is quite noticeable. Direction of RGV is amazing as usual. Background score of the film is impressive and music is good.

The movie gets heavy at some points which can causes boredom. There is no masala in the film so people who like light-hearted and fun-filled cinema might not appreciate the film much.


Kiss of the Decade: Madonna and Britney

Madonna and Britney's Famous KissPop divas MADONNA and BRITNEY SPEARS‘ notorious lip-lock at the MTV Video Music Awards, has been voted the top kiss of the decade.

The two sensational singers created a stir around the world when they kissed in the opening number for the 2003 MTV Video Music Awards. The U.K. department store Selfridges has branded the kiss the most iconic of the 2000s.

Tobey Maguire's passionate smooch with Kirsten Dunst in 2002’s Spider-Man came second in the list of Kiss of Decade, while Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal’s slow-burning song in 'Brokeback Mountain' in 2005 landed on third place.


Jennifer Aniston Signs Up to Dating Agency?


Jennifer AnistonAccording to the rumors Jennifer Aniston is so desperate to find Mr. Right that she has signed up to a dating agency.

A website report says that the former ‘Friends’ star and ex-wife of Brad Pitt (2000 – 2005) has paid a six figure lump sum to top matchmaking agency Kelleher International who played matchmaker to other stars like Paula Abdul.

An insider told, "Jen is desperate to finally hook up with a man who will be faithful and true to her."

The person also added, "She'll pay a million bucks if she has to find the right guy. One thing I guarantee you is that she'll never take Brad back, no matter how much he begs her to reconcile."


Sandra Bullock: Find My Dog Detective.


Sandra Bullock with Her DogRenowned Hollywood actress Sandra Bullock has hired a detective. No, not for disclosing her husband's secretes but to find out her missing pet dog Cinnabun.

According to the reports Sandra and her husband Jesse James hired pet detective Colleen Busch from agency Find Toto. Colleen Busch told reporters, "I'm in contact with Sandra and Jesse all day. We've been going back and forth checking on tips."

The couple's pet went missing from their house, Seal Beach, California, since January 25. Along with hiring a detective, the couple has started an online campaign to raise awareness of the missing pet and help bring her home safely.

James who runs West Coast Choppers Motorcycle Company wrote a massage on company's website, appealing: "We've had a few leads, but all dead ends so far, but the search is still definitely on. She's a great little dog, and we want to find her as soon as possible."

He added, "Please keep your eyes out for our little gal, she's a light brown and white pit bull, 9 months old, cropped ears, full tail, hazel eyes. Last seen wearing a large pink collar near West Coast Choppers and Cisco Burger on Anaheim St./710 Freeway in Long Beach."

James has also offered a USD 2,000 reward to anyone who safely returns the dog.


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